Habits: Part 3-Making a Game Plan

Have you decided which habit it is that you’re going to change in your life? Have you taken notes on what is going on around you in order to identify your cue for your habit? If you remember from last month, you wanted to ask yourself questions concerning different categories regarding your cue when you felt the craving. Those were:

  1. Location – Where are you?
  2.  Time – What time is it?
  3.  Emotional State – What are you feeling?
  4.  Other People – Who is around?
  5. Preceding Action – What happened just before the urge?

Once you’re able to answer all of those and identify what your cue is, you’ll have power over it. The next step is having a plan of attack ready for when you get the craving.

By choosing a certain plan of how to behave and react when the cue hits, it will become easier to change your habit. First, you will need to write out exactly what your cue is and what response it triggers in you. Example:

  • ·    When I feel (or think, see, time, etc.) lonely, I crave bingeing on sweets while watching TV.

Writing out whatever cue it is that triggers your craving will help you acknowledge what you are doing and make you more conscious of it. After that, you need to write down several responses you’re going to do instead of your current habit. This is one way in which to create and replace your current with a new one. Such responses could be:

  • Instead of bingeing on sweets while watching TV, I will:
  • Walk the dog
  • Go for a jog
  •  Read
  • Call my parents/friends/other relatives

It is important to have a plan for what you’re going to do when your cue pops up – this will enable you to fight it better, have power over it, and create a better habit. You must know that you have control over it and be self-conscious enough to work towards changing it.

It is important to remember that you should take smalls steps towards changing your habit. Do not look to change several habits at once, or completely overhaul a habit by eliminating it entirely or taking drastic measures. Focus on taking small, manageable steps. You will see results that will last instead of a quick fix and falling back into old habits. It also enables you to have small victories and have a sense of accomplishment, which is important to keep you on the right path.

There are also several tips that you can utilize to help you on your path to be successful while changing your habit. One is monitoring. Simple, right? But monitoring involves being honest with yourself about what is going on. Say you’re trying to change an eating habit you have – logging your food won’t help unless you’re completely honest about what you’re eating.

Another way to help create a new habit is scheduling. Making a schedule of your daily/weekly activities and actually scheduling in a new habit you want to accomplish helps. This is especially true for those individuals that stick to whatever is on their calendar. If you’re trying to workout more, read more, meditate, etc., putting it on your calendar and setting an alarm to remind you has been shown to have great results. It helps you eliminate decision-making, fight procrastination, and make time for things that are important to you. A final way in which you can build or change habits is having an accountability buddy/application. You can select a friend or individual that will make you accountable for your actions (good or bad) when we just can’t rely on ourselves. Often times this is a personal trainer for those trying to work out, or a spouse when trying to eat healthy. There are also applications on your phone that you can use to mark down when you’ve done things – they even remind you when you haven’t checked it off for the day (or time) that you have set. Some great ones are Habit List, Way of Life, and Coach.me. Any of these will go a long way to tracking your habits.

Whatever way you choose to build better habits, it must work for you! Make sure that you focus on your progress, the small victories, and not being perfect. You will have slips – that’s why people plan cheat days; they help you stay on track – but remember and focus on the fact that you’re human and will be able to get back on the wagon towards change. And, of course, you must always believe in your ability to change and create new habits. Don’t wait…the time to start is now!

Pesto Recipe

Pesto is a nice thing to have on hand to spruce up a meal.  Check out our stuffed pork chop recipe or add it to your meats and veggies for a tasty twist. 

Ingredients 

  • 1 C. Basil
  • 1 clove of garlic
  • 1/4 C. of grated parmesan 
  • 2 1/2 tbsp of olive oil
  • salt & pepper to taste 

Preparation

  1. In a food processor, pulse basil, garlic, parmesan, salt & pepper until smooth.
  2. Slowly add the olive oil while pulsing
  3. Store in a sealed container and refrigerate or freeze in t ziplock bag to use in a later date.
  4. That's it!  So simple!

Chocolate Coconut Bark

You heard us right!  We're posting a recipe for your sweet tooth.  No worries, it's still pretty healthy; plus we'll kick your butt a little extra harder next time you come in to train.  Always looking out for you!

Ingredients 

  • 2 oz. (about 55 grams) dark chocolate
  • 1 C. coconut oil (make sure it's extra virgin, and unrefined)
  • 1 handful coconut flakes
  • 1 handful of silvered nuts (almonds, cashews or pecans)
  • 1/4 tsp. sea salt

Preparation

  1. Fill a pot with a few inches of water, then balance a smaller pot on top, so it just hovers above the water.
  2. Bring the water to a simmer.
  3. Break the chocolate into pieces, and melt it in the top pot.
  4. Take the melted chocolate off the heat, and stir in the coconut oil until it melts. Add the nuts and coconut flakes.
  5. Pour batter into an 8×8 pan, lined with parchment paper. Sprinkle the sea salt on top.
  6. Put in the freezer for 15 minutes until solid, then cut into squares.
  7. Enjoy and schedule your next training session! 

Pesto Stuffed Pork Chops

Ingredients 

  • 2 tablespoons crumbled feta cheese (optional)
  • 2 tablespoons chilled basil pesto
  • 1 tablespoon toasted pine nuts
  • 4 bone-in pork loin chops, 1 1/4-inch thick
  • 1 teaspoon ground black pepper
  • 1 teaspoon dried oregano
  • 1 teaspoon minced garlic
  • 1/2 teaspoon red pepper flakes
  • 1/4 teaspoon ground thyme
  • 2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar

Preparation 

  • Preheat oven to 375 degrees F.
  • Mix feta cheese, basil pesto, and pine nuts in a bowl. Use the tip of a sharp boning or paring knife to cut a 3-inch slit in the side of each pork chop, 2 inches deep and 1/4-inch away from the bone, to make a pocket for stuffing. Stuff pork chops with pesto filling and secure with toothpicks.
  • Mix black pepper, oregano, garlic, red pepper flakes, and thyme in a small bowl; rub both sides of each chop with the spice mix. Place chops into a shallow baking dish.
  • Bake in the preheated oven until chops are browned and stuffing is hot, about 40 minutes. Brush chops with balsamic vinegar and bake until vinegar forms a glaze, another 5 minutes.

Habits: Shaping Our Lives More Often Than You'd Think

We’ve heard it before, “My fault, force of habit” or “I don’t think about it, it’s habit”, right? But what does those statements really mean? Actions that we perform in our daily lives are based on our habits, not conscious decision making, such as what we do in the morning – brushing our teeth, washing our face, etc. As a matter of fact, a study done in 2006 at Duke, showed that 40% of our daily actions are due to habits!